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Here some questions I personally ask on the first date and I hope this helps for the people who are just joining the bowl.
1. What made you join __________?

2. Have you done something like this before?

If the answer is yes, ask, “Would you like to try again if the opportunity allowed you do so?” If the answer is no, ask “Would you be willing to try something that’s potentially out of your comfort zone?”

3. If you can travel anywhere in the world for a week, where would you go and why? (Men love this question)

4. What exactly are your expectations out of this arrangement and what can the lady expect?

5. Would you be opposed to exploring a long term relationship if it lead to that?

6. Are you opposed to giving me an allowance? If so, did you already have an amount in mind when you thought about looking for a sugar baby?

7. When are you looking to start the arrangement?

8. How do you envision this arrangement?

9. I would love to learn more about your occupation as I consider myself to be an entrepreneur.

Bonus:
I am definitely not opposed to a long term relationship. Looks like you and I share common interests. I am looking for a gentleman who isn’t opposed to exposing me to the finer things in life as well as to invest in my future endeavors.
With the mentor that I had, we would see each other at least once a week and he would either do this:

A: Wire funds into my account.
B: Give my allowance in an envelope.
C: Pay for something with his debit/credit card.

In exchange, he had a confidant, lover and friend that enriched his life for the better, whether it was mentally, or emotionally.

Please tell me your thoughts.

Here you have it. Enjoy. If you can think of anymore questions, feel free to reblog and add them.

Diet

• Drink 3-4 bottles of water day (which equates to 8 cups of water)

• Only eat brown! This means brown rice and bread, so all wheat and rye products.

• Have a colorful plate, have a variety of fruits and vegetables but the the main color is green.

• Avoid fried foods at all costs.

• Keep pop/soda out of your system.

• If you have to eat late at night consume fruits and vegetables or large amounts of water but the latest you should eat is 9:30.

• Breakfast: whole grain cereal or oatmeal with a piece of fruit and bacon, or sausage and eggs.

• Snack 1: water maybe a granola bar and fruit

• Lunch: sandwich (get some protein) on wheat or salad with water (try to get some veggies)

• Snack 2: water with something small

• Preworkout snack: a pb&j for energy

• Post workout/Dinner: make this your biggest meal with lots of protein (lean and not fried) some form of carbohydrate and vegetable with water.

• Late night snack: produce and water

• You get one cheat meal per week don’t go crazy like eat a whole cake lol be mindful of what you eat

Workout

Tuesday and Thursday, Saturday if you want good results.

• Stretch

• 3 sets of 5 push-ups

• 4 sets of 15 sit ups

• 20 second plank

• 40 bicycle crunches

• 25 second plank

• 3 set of 15 leg lift

• 30 second plank

• 30 second flutter kick

• 20 minute cardio it can be running, cycling, dancing, jump rope.

Monday, Wednesday and Friday

• Stretch

• 4 sets of 12 squats

• 4 sets of 20 calf raises (add weights as you feel more comfortable)

• 100 mountain climbers

• 50 jumping jacks

• 4sets of 15 sit ups

• 20 second plank

• 30 bicycle crunches

• 25 second plank

• 3 set of 15 leg lift

• 30 second plank

• 30 second flutter kicks (lie on your back hands to your side, lift your neck and kick your legs up and down

• 20 minute cardio

Lie. Lie. Lie. To these tricks.

Below are the top five questions I usually get asked and the templates and translations of how i generally respond.

1.”Have you ever had a sugar daddy before?”

- Yes, I’ve had a successful long term arrangement before.

* this lets him know you are experienced and trying to play you will be difficult.

2.”What was your last arrangement like?”

- It was great, we met a few times a month. He was a absolute gentleman. We traveled together and attended events sometimes. I received a monthly allowance, and my expenses were covered for events and travel.

*this lets him know you expect to be treated respectfully, can adapt to different environments and gives him a expectation of your financial expectations. Also this lays of the blueprint of the arrangement you want.

3.”What’s the worst thing that’s ever happened to you?”

-I’ve only had pleasant experiences, I only tolerate respectful and generous men. Anything else is not up to my standards and will not be tolerated.

*that should be self explanatory.

4.”Have you ever met with a man for (x amount lower than your minimum)?

-Yes I am happy to platonically meet for (previously mentioned amount) over dinner or coffee to get to know each other better. Until you are comfortable with an arrangement. I also require my travel expenses to be covered (gas).

* I’m not fucking or meeting you for free, they usually give up and don’t respond.

5.”I get tested regularly and don’t mess with sluts. Lol. So we can fuck raw baby.”

-To protect my health, I will not have unprotected sex. This arrangement will not work.

*Any man asking about sex before the first date and insufficient deposit is usually salt. I typically just block them.

2021 will bring me happiness. I will break free from the chains of the past & heal. I will be the happiest, the prettiest, and the most confident! fully loving myself and living for nothing but the satisfaction & better will of myself and health. 2021 me will be unstoppable.

Raven Tracy for Exit Magazine